I want to thank Meizac for writing that great post on The Outlier Collective entitled Texas and Racism…Everywhere. I thought I would respond but it turned out to be a post-sized comment. So I decided to write my own thoughts — somewhat — in that vein.
I’m very conscious as a black woman, so my response to some of the injustices that occur under our political and economic structure might seem detached – at times. In a sense I’m thinking, “What do you expect?” I never strived to become a prototype for this system, or an imitation white person. My standard of beauty even differs, while I do appreciate beauty in all cultures. My pride in my African roots and respect for the remnants of those African cultures gives me the strength to deny a victim mentality, because I know that the western slant on the world is not concrete.
I don’t wear my ideology on my sleeve but I’ve taken action, and have been outspoken and have participated in marches etc. to protest crimes committed against black people and against Africa. But overall I don’t see how any of these ‘injustices’ will go away under a world economic system that demands cutthroat competition for resources and money. It must have scapegoats — reprobates and ‘genetically inferior’ people, so that they can be cut out of the competition with ‘justification’. It’s built into the system. The system wouldn’t work without these ideas. While a degree of xenophobia might be natural (part of the reason I rarely use the word racism – it’s become a canned phrase for the most part – but I do use it when it’s so fucking obvious), something we have inside us from ‘the old days’ so that we could protect ourselves against other tribes, it’s used in the United States and elsewhere to effect policy and propaganda.
It’s hilarious that western countries have trampled all over the natural institutions in Africa and elsewhere, then go back like superman to save the day, making these people look more helpless and pathetic than ever, while they were doing just fine before Europe ever got there. This is where we can get rid of the notion of white people being more capable of ‘handling’ (‘handling’: therein lies the problem) their environment.
I believe that there are other ways to view the world, ways that we could adopt from dismissed tribes in Africa and other areas that had been trampled by the machine. Our view of our world and ideologies can be shifted. Maybe with the merging of the world in cyber-space the mutual respect can be more easily accomplished. I respect all cultures, but I mean, how advanced is this society really? More than half of us are on antidepressants – why? Shit! and there’s more, but that’s another post.
This system may be the best that we could do for now and it’s great that Meizac and other people help to build awareness of some of the outright hypocrisies that exist. These are the seeds that some of our young people need to help us to build something better than this. For now we’re all brainwashed, black people as well, which is understandable — striving to keep up with the dominant culture without seeing the truth. But we’re all in the struggle together — haha! — who the hell really knows what we’re doing here? We can learn from each other and teach each other without having a victim mentality or a mentality of superiority.
Yay! Spring’s here, and in spring, John comes back to live on the bench by the historical house. I don’t know where he goes in the winter and I miss him terribly. Once the lilac trees and tulips start blooming around the historical house, I look for him on the bench. There are other bums out there but he’s popular. The others are a brood of unfortunates in tattered clothes and greasy hair. Besides, the other ones can be, I’ll just say — non-communicative – one shook his penis at me before he went to take a leak behind the bushes. Now how rude was that?! And the one with the pompadour, well he mostly communicates with himself. But John knows their language and speaks to them all regularly. John has an entourage of homeless and non-homeless people and he shares his food and liquor with bums on neighboring bench units. He holds court and commands a certain respect.
I must say he’s rather good-looking — Latino, reddish brown colored. He said he was gay, but that was when he was drunk out of his ass. I get jealous when John doesn’t notice me walk by the bench where he lives because he’s talking to somebody else. Let’s say he doesn’t say hi because he’s speaking to a pretty, well-dressed woman. I wonder then if I’m unworthy and worry that he has a hierarchy of friends, and that I’m on the lower rung. After all I do work a low-skilled job, and dress like a bum, uh, I mean, I don’t dress as fashionably as some of the other types with whom he chats. Sometimes he talks to them in Spanish because he’s bilingual. I only know one language, this one — I could kick myself for not paying attention in Ms. Pina’s Spanish class! I calm myself, “Oh silly, he didn’t say hello because he simply didn’t see you. It isn’t just that he prefers someone fancier.”
John’s been in a wheelchair for the last year. His homeless son’s been pushing him around in it. Well, he said it’s his son. Another time when he was drunk cruising up Broadway in his wheelchair he yelled out that the guy pushing him in the chair was also gay and that he was his son. “Hello my lovely,” he said to me cross-eyed drunk, “This is my son. My gay son, and I love him.” I hate it when John gets like that. I was comforted to see that his son had come here to take care of him. When he’s sober he always asks me what’s new and tells me to have a good day at work. He tells me to bring an umbrella if I decide to come out later when it rains. Sometimes we kick a little neighborhood talk. We’ve talked about who really started that fire on 211th Street, and when that lady who feeds all the cats in the neighborhood was hit by a UPS truck. I used to blush terribly when he’d ask me to marry him. When he saw that I had a boyfriend, he respectfully flipped it and asked us when the wedding would be and if he could come to it. He was really nice to my boyfriend which I appreciated — I so wanted my boyfriend to feel welcome in the neighborhood. John never never ever in all of the years that I’ve known him, asked me for one red cent, except for that one time. “You know mama that I’ve never never ever in all the years that I’ve known you asked you for nothing, but this one time.” I was touched, though very concerned about his financial trouble, so I gave him a buck. In the back of my mind I wondered if this would put me in good with him, so that I’d never feel like I was on a lower rung of his hierarchy again, but then I reminded myself that I am a worthy, capable, albeit unilingual woman who doesn’t have to buy friendship from anybody.